Meeraa number aayeegaa!!!!!
Life has not been too rosy for the past one month, One post in the entire month in my blog reflects how crunched I was with work, I had to face some critical moments to finish my projects on bang, every thing got screwed up because of some, not so proper management strategies adopted, being the type of management guy, as I always aspired to be, I made a peep in corner analysis of every thing, and how it all went wrong, one of my projects was in jeopardy!!!! and it was sheer hard work conjunct with smart work, we dug ourselves out from the buried coffin. I had many sleepless nights, my dreams in those few hours when I had a nap were full of those perilous code and those very professional ways of intimidations of escalations in those chains of mails. I feel much more comfortable now, after that hectic work when I had to work for 16 hours a day, I am a happy man now. It is our basic nature to seek happiness. Do we get it? When we look around we find ourselves surrounded by suffering. We feel uneasy; that we are perched on an island of some happiness, surrounded on all sides by deep and dark waters of unhappiness. Is happiness just a mirage? The fact is that there is neither undiluted happiness, nor unabated unhappiness. Life is both. However, the nature of pain is such that it appears that the unhappy phase of life is interminably long. I was traveling through this path all these one month I guess!! Never in my life did I feel the fear of being lost, I was in abjection at a stage when I was blamed for all the mistakes and decisions taken by managers, for I was the sole person handling the project. When we are faced with unhappy situations, we may derive some comfort by observing and learning from Nature. A cold and dark night yields to the refreshing morning sun, with its soothing rays of warmth, radiating light dispelling darkness. Every thing I am telling seems to be out of box I know!!! But this is what is spilling from my heart, and what I have learnt. After every chilly winter, there comes the spring, bringing warmth, hope and cheer. At the end of a dark, long tunnel, there is light. Happiness is a state of mind, which keeps us in a state of well-being. Several important ingredients go to make the 'commodity' known as happiness. But this precious commodity is simply not available in a departmental store. Its a feeling again. I had no minds to remember the Birthdays of my friends also, I forgot to wish a couple of my friends on their birthdays, could not watch any of my favourite cricket matches on TV...I wish I would never again be in such a situation again...Touchwood!!!! Lesson of the period “We do not gain anything by fretting or fuming over things over which we have no control whatsoever. We only become unhappy in the process. Accept gracefully the things given to us, the good or bad, and abjectly surrender to the dictates of destiny, your time arrives and you have fun unlimited” . …Sorry if you read the entire post, I promise to post something more interesting next!!!! :)